thread: BIGGEST scare of my life!!

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  1. #1
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    May 2007
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    Oh wow! I hope you're ok!
    I know what you mean, its a scary scary thing!
    Hope you feel better soon!

  2. #2
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    Jun 2007
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    Yes that is scary, but if doc said bubs is fine then I would not stress. The same thing happend to me when pregnant with DS, I think I was about 4 or 5 months along & we were DTD & when finished I noticed lots of blood. I paniced & cried right away, it was enough for me to keep a pad on the rest of the day & I was so scared. But I didn't have any pain, or big clots etc so tried not to worry.....already had a doc appt on the Monday anyway. When I told him what happened he predicted we were DTD before I mentioned & said it is not at all uncommon & then I had to have a needle because of my blood type. But needless to say it was a while before DH & I did anything again & this time around I'm scared each time.

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    Jul 2009
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    That is scary it would def freak me out!! And obviously just as you get some of your sex drive back, probly enough to put you off again!!
    Sounds like it's happened to a few others and bubs are all ok so try not too panic too much...ha...I'm sure that's easier said than done

  4. #4
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    Apr 2007
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    How scary!

    When you are pregnant the softening of your cervix also means that the blood vessels in it rupture more easily. Also, cervical "erosions," where the cells normally inside the cervical canal migrate to the outside, can bleed easily after sex. It may well be so ething like this that's caused your problem. I hope it doesn't happen again!

  5. #5
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    Apr 2009
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    thanks for your help and support.
    Bleeding eventually stopped last night, so it only lasted 24 hours. I took a long bubble bath and tried to relax, and afterward didnt have much blood at all, just a few last spots on my liner.

    Im 0 positive blood type, not a negative blood type, which makes things easier for me.

    I am very scared now to do anything sex related with dp...poor thing, like he hasnt been deprived enough lol.

    Im just doing 'other things' to make him happy, and trying to steer clear of my giney

    I have been thinking of the other incident that happened 10 or so months back, with his ripping my hymen...and i was worrying whether...if my hymen is still there...this could cause any problems when i give birth? My doc said there is still part of my hymen inside me, and if dp accidentally ripped it with his penis...what damage could the baby do to it!!??!?

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    I'm so glad things are ok

  7. #7
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    Apr 2009
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    thanks sally...

    and omg toomanytoomany...I just seen that you have 6 kids....5 of which are girls...wow, must be a handful...your such a trooper