Thank you all so, so much for all your kind replies. You've all made me feel a lot better. I don't know why I do it to myself, but I tend to pick one thing and then fixate on it. I get myself into a state where I'm not being rational about things.

I will try the visualisation that you suggested Pollyanna, and will try talking to him too.

I think I'm getting quite hormonal and very emotional about things, I'm a bit overwhelmed by the pregnancy, impending parenthood, worry that the baby's OK, just everything really.

I have to calm down a bit!

Thanks so much girls for giving me just what I needed today

Devon
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