Hi Devon,

I'm nearly 22 weeks and I still haven't recognised any feelings as he baby moving- I feel stretching feelings, and so on, but nothing I could say, oh, that's my baby moving.

I had a quick scan last week as I've been having bad headaches and puffy feet, but everything is ok. And 'it' was moving on screen and apart from the fact that I have a big bulbous belly (I'm quite short) there's no baby feeling.

So don't worry, I wasn't expecting to feel anything at all until 20 - 22 weeks, and my midwife said for your first baby that this is completely normal.

I've had a couple of Mc's too, I know what the checking your undies fear feels like, but it is very very very rare by the second trimester.

Relax and you will feel your little one in due time.