Gemma - This is a sunsequent pregnancy for you.. therefore you are expected to feel baby earlier? I can understand YOU feeling those strong kicks, and feeling kicks on the outside at around 20 weeks.. but i am already feeling kicks or thumps from the outside. I know they will progress to be much stronger.. it's just overwhelming to be feeling these 'alien' like feelings and not even be showing!

Hayley - I don't think i would be any further along... we had an 8 week and a 13 week scan and both were pretty spot on, 13 weeks scan i was a day ahead i think. But my Ob did say she was big... I have to be tested for GD this week because i am high risk as there is allot of diabetes type 2 in my family.

August M M - Thank you for your support.. I am feeling a little better this afternoon as Danny is home and gives me so much comfort - he told me we are just so lucky that we can already feel her. His been following me around in hope he can feel some more thumps. So i am happy for him.