Of course it's totally normal to feel anxious, even if you haven't experienced something as awful as a m/c.

All i can say is believe and trust in your body and your own abilities. You will realise how strong you can be, and how rewarding life is. Think about the birth and your relationship with your child now - read up on things like labour options, breastfeeding (biggie if you plan to b/f - i'd advise contacting ABA now to learn about it), nappy otpions, parenting styles etc, and allow yourself to get excited about being a mum. Nothing you learn/read now will truely prepare you for motherhood, but I do think it will start some thought processes, and probably help you bond with your child.

I was really nervous last time around. I didn't know if i could handle the pain (i hate pain!), but was also really determined to have a natural birth. It worked out well for me in the end. i had the perfect birthing experience, and this time around i just can't wait to give birth. It was the most amazing experience of my life. You'll hear horror stories, but focus on what you want, and understand that most births are truely wonderful experiences.

We are all here for you to talk through all of these things you will be thinking about. Use all these wonderful women as a resource. You CAN do it.