we've just found out that #2 is a boy. I was disappointed as I wanted a little girl.

Today Ifound out that "friends" of ours are expecting their first and it's a girl - just as the wife wanted. I've spent all day sobbing and even now am on the brink of tears

I just hope that this feeling will pass and that when #2 is born I'll love him just the same as I do with my first... but I'm worried I won't and won't get over this feeling