I was big cause I put on a lot of weight in the 1st tri, LOL!
I am just about as big now as I was at the end of my last pregnancy. And I still have 7-9 weeks to go
The second time round everything just stretches out more easily.
I'm sorry you are copping it from all sides People just can't help themselves As always, remind yourself that things people say to pregnant women are all about them, not about you.