thanks all. nice to know i am not alone.
bought some new playdough, colouring books etc... that helps a little re distractions.
Generally though, things seem worse not better (ie tantrums - yes, I agree I think he knows I will give in sooner) Baby is tiring me out already (only 24 weeks)as sleeping is awkward, with lots of kicks in bladder.

Any other advice would be great!!