I've had exactly the same!! 'we all knew" etc, what also bothers me is people asking when you're going to have kids - what if we were trying and couldn't!? I never ask people now for exactly that reason. Also, I've been very forcefully told that I just HAVE to get rid of my cat now, and that I shouldn't be vegetarian anymore! How about I just give this baby to someone else, there seems to be alot wrong with me!