LOL- oh- I can so relate!
DH and I were engaged in july 2004 after 5 months together- so his extended family assumed it was to start a family.
Well, we got married in oct 2005 and imediatley the 'when are you going to get pregnant?' thing started. Too bad by oct 2006 I was getting asked the same thing at a family christening- and staring in the face of my first cycle of IVF after an IUI and 6 months of clomid!!!- some people!
And now that I am pregnant- naturally- all i get is - see, all you had to do is relax! grrrrr!
I'm very big to begin with, so wasnt expceting to show- but ppl who know me well can see that my body shape has changed.

And the only one who picked the sex of the baby before the 20 wk scan was my FIL- and he's never been wrong.