Oh no Nae! You poor honey!

Well... I have used toys pretty much throughout all of my pregnancies and all my babies are ok... none of them have stutters (which is what my friend thought might happen because of the vibrating! lol)
Dh & I are never really gentle during sex... he tries to be but hey. The worst thing that has happened to me was some spotting afterwards and a UTI. I do say it is better to err on the more gentle side though just in case. There is no risk to the bub... think about how much movement is involved in just walking... Bub is cushioned by the amniotic fluid around him/her.

Keep enjoying your healthy love lives