*mitch* we were exactly the same, we REALLY, REALLY wanted a girl and Ben said that he NEVER wanted to have a boy because he hates boys, lol. But Jonah has been the biggest joy in our lives, I could not imagine life without him. And I'm sure if Goober is a boy, as soon as he is born you and DH will simply fall in love with him and forget about how you wanted to have a girl.