Thanks ladies, though going at it too hard is a bit of a contradiction at the moment its more like being on a see-saw and im the see-saw

I think it will definitely affect any further dtd, dh is starting to get paranoid about hurting bubs and the bigger I get the more I cant think of anything worse and with that pain geeez not again.....I also think the first time he feels her that will be it for him, game over.