Hi all,
i have a few problems with my partners mother and need reassurance.I know i have a bit of time before i give birth ( i am 21 weeks tomorrow) anyway my partners mother wants to be there when i give birth but i dont want her to be, i want my partner and my mum, i wanted my mum to be and than she just ask one day and i said yes, now my partners mother is not good when she is told no, she knows my mum is going to be there and is not happy about it, she makes me very uncomfortable and hasnt even wanted this baby and has made that very clear to the point of saying to my partner that he should cause a accident so i miscarriage, he was outraged and needless to say i wasnt impressed, she and my partners father also tell me everything that can go wrong everytime im out there and it gets to the point where i have burst into tears when we get in the car to come home, my partner has told them that they are making me upset but all they have said is its there house and they will say what they want. Anyway back to the birth she is a very munipulative person and doesnt take it too well when she is told no, so im just wondering if when i give birth i can get the midwives to keep her away, and under no circumstances is she to be let into the delivery room or told anything if she rings, i would also like some suggestions how to cope with her, im trying to be positive but even after she came to the ultrasound she is still not accepting it, all she did at the ultrasound was ask the technican if there was anything wrong with the baby and suggesting things to check she didnt even smile when she seen it.
Thanks in advance for any suggestions