i had it with my 2nd and 3rd. vuval vacrose veins suck and yeah they look ugly, and are painful n itchy! (tmi looks like a whole bunch of blue/purple worms down there) what helped me avoid pain was avoiding dry sex, sitting on a ice pack (expecially after sex), avoid squatting. Very normal just very annoying... no cure you'l just have to wait until last couple of weeks preg, birth or a few weeks after birth its different for everyone and yes they get worse with each preg
wish you all the best!!