hi tellytubby,
i experienced the same sort of pain after DTD on the weekend. thorbbing is how i'd describe it. I just figured its all that blood rushing around that area.

but one thing i've done to relieve my sore swollen bits is buy mens unides. after a week of stealing DHs i got four pairs of my own and wear them everywhere (except for work).

I just found the ladies undies very restrictive and cut into me but the mens has "ball room" lol just right for a preggie lady!

also glad to hear i ain't alone with this problem.although i seem to be not as far along as some of you other girls eeeekkk.