you could have a tupperware party or a linen party for your baby shower??
do you have linen parties in NSW? you can then end up with gorgeous good quality cot sheets and accessories and have your friends and family around AND they can play afew ice breaky games baby shower related...???
my aunty got everyone to bring one of their baby photos and everyone tried to guess who was who, i like that except everyone there had known me since i was a baby so i wasnt hard to pick!