i have had heaps of people ask me if it was planned, it is only number 3 baby, and i didnt think i was so old that people would assume i had finished my family! i think it is really rude and personal, but unfortunately i am not good at lying so my reply is usually ' we were thinking about it , then it happened' . they can think what they want.
before i got pregnant they were all asking if i was going to have more kids or not, again work colleagues, not close friends even. i would never think to ask people i hardly know such huge questions.
belinda