This is my first, and I felt bubs move at about 19 weeks. I think it was another couple of weeks before DH could feel anything.....but it does seem like all movement stops as soon as he puts his hand on my tummy. I must be having a girl......that is exactly the sort of thing I would do! After the first few times he didn't get as excited anyway - I could sit with my hand on my tummy all day and never get bored, it's the best feeling in the world.