I didn't feel the movements until about 16 weeks. DH felt it soon after me, but we were lying down and talking and he had his hand on my belly firmly for a little while. I think you need to be a bit patient with it - now bubs moves heaps and I love feeling it but DH is bored of that now LOL, and unless bub kicks him straight away, he doesn't leave his hand there long enough to feel it.