thanks guys - we already have got some things from places like salvation army they have stuff that looks like it was hardly/never worn, grandparents and great grandparents have already said they want to help us out etc my mums buying the pram and has bought some little clothes and things already... my boss who just had a baby three months ago gave us a carry cot which we will prob use for basinet and dps mum knows someone with a practically new capsule...
i guess i mean like should we be buying things like clothes often or nappies etc i am kinda confused also about how much of these things we will need as this is my first baby and the sizes lol i am way over my head!!!
my mum has said she will throw us a baby shower but i am unsure about it...