Ah yeah how sensitive ppl can get huh?! My collegue used to tell me I was huge, her SIL was 2 weeks ahead of me and only showing half a belly I was showing.
The other day at my midwife appointment I asked her about bubs size and apparently we are spot on when it comes to sizes!
So let it go in one ear and out the other and if you're really worried, just ask your midwife/ gyno!