Hi there Bindy,

A birth plan is all about communication. It will ensure that everyone involved knows what your wishes are for the safe delivery of your baby. However, it is imperative I believe to keep an open mind and to remember that not everything always goes to plan. My midwife at the Birth Centre knows my wishes via my birth plan and our previous discussions as do my DP and sister who will be supporting me and they all know that if a C-section is absolutely required etc that that is what has to be done. I have done everything in my power to hopefully have a completely natural and active birth experience, but I am not going to jeopardise my baby or myself if more drastic measures are required to deliver safely.

Just jot down a few things like positions, pain relief options, whether or not you want the cord to stop pulsating before it is cut etc and various other things that you have no doubt thought about ok. It may go completely out the window when you are in the thick of it but at least you spent a little time considering your options. Good luck, Nicole