Hi,

yep, i had one. I had it typed out and whilst in labour they asked me for it - it totally went out the window (i had drugs, didnt get to cut the cord, and didnt breastfeed until 4 hrs later).

I had things in there like:
*Whom i wanted in the room
* Breastfeed/bottle??
* Prefer not to be cut (i.e epistomy)
*Prefer no drugs
* Did i want to be sitting/standing ??? etc

I just expanded on each of these points and typed it up. Of course like pregnancy in general, not everything goes to plan, but was reasurring to have some idea of what i wanted.....