Make sure you tell your doc you know that her own union has withdrawn it's recommendation on surgery for breech. Even in their original statement it said that one reason to not perform surgery was if the mother didn't wiant surgery. It's your body and your birth and your recovery period with another child to care for. The surgery is available if you really need it but if you're allowed to birth spontaneously without interference there isn't really a reason you'd need it. Unless your Ob is going to come to your home and help you in the aftermath of a second surgery, she needs reminding that you have needs which extend beyond your time in the hospital.