thanks for all your advice guys...i think i'm gonna try to stick it out. i really want that moment of finding out after giving birth, and i just feel like it gives me even more to look forward to. i'm so all over the place at the moment emotionally that i can't even make a decision about what to have for dinner tonight so i really don't think it's a good time to be making such a huge decision...i'll try to leave it i think...i'll see what dp says on the day of my next ob appointment...