Julie, Great news! I saw my Ob today and "informed" her that I will be having a doula as a support person. At first, she didn't buy the idea, but we had a long discussion about all the benefits that "I" will get from having one beside me. In the end, she was more open to the idea. She also apologized for showing the discernment because the concept of having a doula was a little intruding since it is so uncommon in Quebec. At last, we came to a good ending... at least both of us don't have to feel offended in any way.

As for the epidural, although I still have some time to decide, apparently, everything is recorded into the hospital's computer beforehand... that's why, my doctor seems to be pushing me for an answer. I have explained to her the different reasons to why I would not accept the epidural UNLESS it comes to a must, but then again, I will only have to ask for it when I am in labour! She gave me other options for pain relief (other medications), but I have told her that I would rather go without them to start. I got to the book store and bought a few books about alternative pain management. Though I have not heard of them before, I am willing to try everything else before medication as I am aiming for a medication-free delivery. So, from now until my due date, I will read as much as I can and practice some of the techniques!

I spoke to one of the doulas you listed. They have already directed me to one that is closest to where I am. Next week, I will be meeting her and we will be planning my "birth plan" together. I am so happy that everything worked out just so smoothly. Never thought I would be one of the lucky ones to bring a change into the hospital.

Melanie, you're right, I could always be the first one to make a difference in the birthing process by requesting a doula which no one thought of! I think most of the time, most people are too intimidated by the doctor's prestige and degree.

Thanks to all of you girls, I am able to overcome this barrier! Julie... thanks so much for listing out all the contact numbers for the doulas available in my area... I will definitely keep you updated of my situation. In the mean time, like you said, you're all definitely my belly buddies!