I'm going to go against the grain and say that I WISH I'd been told some horror stories when I was PG with DD!

If I had, then I wouldn't have been soooo naive about the fact that sometimes things just don't go as planned. And then I wouldn't have beaten myself up because I was a "bad mother" because things went other than perfectly! I was NOT in a good state of mind after her birth!

Either way, I'm going back to have another (although it's taken me 9 years!), so it's something I feel was worth experiencing for the joy I now have in my beautiful daughter.