I totally understand how you feel Kylie, but for me I've had about 6 scans. The reason being namely cos I was seeing the OBS fortnightly until I got to 12 weeks (due to my m/c history) and then I had two at 20 weeks (one by OBS, other by U/S place) and then another at 34 weeks due to Gestational Diabetes. It has been really important for me to 'see' bubs as I was a total mess until about 20 wks for fear of having another m/c. I would see if you can get a referral from a GP. Heaps of people I know have had heaps of scans and even the 3D/4D ones (I haven't had those ones). I would be surprised if they 'pick' anything else up, they can usually get a really good idea at 20 wks how bubs is. Good luck, I hope you get to see your bubs again.