Hey there,
I know how frstrating it must be to just want to see your little one! I too was told that there was no need for a 12 week scan ... so had to wait it out till 20 weeks. Very frustrating and worrying as I'd already had a mc previously and was really scared.

Unfortunately, this wont be happy news to you, but so far I have had 5 scans, all from 20weeks onwards... some because of a 'problem' that was seen with bubs brain, that has new rectified itself. I have at least another 4 scans to monitor his growth as they cannot give me any idea of a due date anymore.

You may have another scan at 34-36 weeks to see which way your baby is lying... I have heard that one is quite common. Otherwise, depending on where you live, there may be a 4d ultrasound clinic near you that does not require a referal. There's one in Melbourne, but its $250. We were going to do it, but with all the scans I am having, don't see the need.

Although It's very disappointing that you may not see your bubs again, just think, in approx 6 weeks time, you'll see the real deal!!!

I hope you have a H&H pregnancy!! Good luck with any more scans if you can have one