Keeping your DH & DP happy in the bedroom!

[frankie]

Hey guys,

I have Spd which is real sore and I cant perform with my DP so I just wanted to ask, what are you guys doing to keep you DP's and DH's happy in the bed. If you know what i mean? Even if you dont have spd maybe you might have other problems.

I feel really bad for him cos i know he wants the love and attention but wont ask for my sake cos he knows im sore. How are you guys keeping your men Happy?

[Cricket]

Have you tried different positions? I think some find that spooning, or rear-entry positions are much easier on aching pelvic joints and big bellies in general.

BTW - I had a little giggle at the title - good luck keeping your DH and DP happy in the bedroom. That might be more than any woman could handle.

[Lily J]

Have to admit that I laughed at the title too!!!
Agree with Cricket that some new positions are handy - this might sound weird, but if you use a BIG stack of pillows under you chest and hips, that makes rear entry a litle more comfortable and makes you feel a little more supported. Also -This might be a bit too personal, but maybe you could do all the non-penetrative sex stuff... um, ahem, like oral...
I don't think you'd have to get in an uncomfortable position for that and your DH could return the favour without aggrevating your condition I think?
Anyway, just some suggestions.
Good luck,
Lily

[meow]

I keep my H quite happy in the bedroom- sleeping

I don't have any special complaints but with someone banging away from the inside on my pelvis and cervix already I am sooo not interested so we sleep.

[Kitt3n]

funny title - Keeping DP AND Dh happy in the bedroom, made me think "huh! lucky girl!!".

then i read the post, you poor thing!!

soz, just made me smirk

[Kitty33]

Very good idea with the pillows to support you for rear entry...... (he he he)
I used 5 pillows!! It was good for support...... and while we are talking about it when u r DTD with your pillows underneath... it helped that I gave myself a bit of a tickle while we were DTD from behind....
OMG i cant beleive I am typing this!! HE HE HE....
I found it helped sooo much to relax the muscles on the inside and made it very very very much more enjoyable for me

Good luck honey
xox

[AnyDream]

hehehe @ title!

Well, I had SPD and my hot tip is to keep him happy Very Infrequently...that way when he gets it it's so mind-blowingly good that it outweighs the fact it's not very often LOL.

Not a solution for everyone, but really ladies, we're talking about weeks and months of his life, not an eternity!

[lismith25]

I agree go the rear option, I have found being on my back is just too painful. Dh is actually being really good about it, he knows that I am not in the mood and I think hormonally it is making him not in the mood either. Thank God ...its hard enough getting out of bed to go the loo every 30mins never mind dtd