Labour with no drugs?

[*LovemyKids*]

Well i had my first son i had an epidural it was the best. With my second son i had no pain relief, i am now pregnant with my third and i am still going to see how i go. It really depends on how you handle the pain. I am not going to lie to you it bloody hurts. My first labour was a long one and my second was a short one so i think that really makes a difference. I would only say to is to take it as it comes don't go into labour with expectations. If the pain comes to much then ask for something whatever your personal preference is. Good luck and honey if people go back again and again ( in my case) it can't really be that bad.

HTH Nikki

[BellyBelly]

Most people who achieve natural birth prepare well and make good choices.

I have an article here with lots of ideas, but you need to place yourself in the care of someone who supports normal physiological childbirth, have support that will help you achieve your goals, like a doula (studies say 50% less c/s, forceps, pain relief etc with a doula) and prepare well.

The Pink Kit is great to give yourself some birth skills as well as knowledge and of course surround yourself with a cheersquad - people who have done it / believe you can do it / want to get it too.

It all boils down to good support and philosophy of those around you.

[QueenMab]

I went into labour wanting an all natural, drug free birth, I achieved it but it was nothing like what I expected.

I completed a calmbirth course with my partner & wasn't scared of labour or pain at all, I thought it was a natural process that is not designed to hurt...

....but it did. Oh my god it really was the worst pain & I've had some bad pain in my life. I felt totally unprepared for the pain because I really thought I shouldn't be having it!! Like I said, I didn't have drugs but that was mostly because I had choosen to birth in the birth center & although they had gas, my midwife was not about to offer it to me, I honestly don't think it would have helped though.

Having said all that though, everybody is different.... I wouldn't be suprised if I really am just a total wuss lol.

Good luck with whatever you decide!

[sasha]

I went to a birth centre where they don't offer epidurals, so it wasn't an option (I would have had to transfer to the hospital, which I really didn't want to do). My advice would be know what is available if you absolutely have to have it, and also know how you react to the drugs. I know that I feel nauseous and fairly "high" on opiate drugs so I didn't want to take pethidine or morphine (sp?) although it was offered. I tried gas but it made me feel sick. So I ended up drug free and yes, it hurts at the end but that bit doesn't last long, really. And afterwards you get the most amazing feeling of achievement.

That said, I don't think you should go in thinking you can't have drugs and then if you need them, feeling like a failure. Things change, just make sure you have a good birthplan and a support person who knows what you want and can advocate for you.

Good luck for the birth, whatever you decide!

[Janie]

Yes, it hurts, but you know what? For me it was a 'good' hurt I thoroughly enjoyed my labour, and can't wait to go back and do it again. Hopefully no gas, no nothing next time

Every person is different, and every labour is different. For sure, go in with an open mind, but do your research, know how each pain relief method works, and what it's side effects are, so that you can make an informed decision. As Kelly said, most people who achieve a drug-free birth do not fluke it, they are well prepared. You might not get any medals from anyone else, but you'll want to give one to yourself you'll feel that bl00dy good afterwards

[StrawberryMumma]

Hey Frankie

Labour without drugs is VERY possible. And I think Janie and Kelly are right in what they are saying about being well prepared.

So many women put a hell of a lot of pressure on themselves during their pregnancy though, when making choices about pain refief, which in result puts so much unecessary stress on them. Pain relief is there to help, and not to add to our worries. In the big picture, the fact that whether or not you have any medications during labour is not the issue.The issue is that YOU need to make a choice that YOU are completely comfortable with (Maybe that's to use mediactions or not to). Don't worry about what anybody else is doing. It's your labour and do what you want to do.

Of course labour hurts, it's just a real uncomfortable, intense pain. Very difficult to imagine. But I found that in between contractions (mine ranged from being every 5 mins to every 30 seconds apart) I got a tiny break so it wasn't just constant IYKWIM. I didn't have any pain relief, but that's just me. I don't believe I am any braver then any other woman, and of course it doesn't make me any better then anyone else. The fact is, that it was my choice and things just happened in a way so I could achieve what I wanted.

Also, what I think is really important is to NOT BE AFRAID of labour. Read about everything, different experiences etc. Let your body do what it needs to do. I'm sure that you will absolutely shock yourself when you realise what you are capable of doing.

All the best

[hannahfroodoo]

I also enjoyed my labour experience and am really excited to do it again. Like sasha said - you get the most amazing feeling of accomplishment and feel like you can take on the world.

yes, it hurts and I'm not really very tough when it comes to pain but labour pain (usually) builds up gradually so you have time to adjust and I really focused on having a positive perception of the pain. Plus, once the baby is born, it's all over (although you are still pretty sore for a while).

There's nothing wrong with using pain relief if you want to - I know people who swear by epidurals - I think they make the whole experience a little more... civilised?... so it all depends on what kind of experience you want.

[fionas]

I was in labour for three days so it wasn't the pain that was the main problem for me, it was not knowing when it was going to end!

I think read about some natural pain relief methods - Juju Sundin's Birth Skills book is highly recommended and takes a common sense approach. This doesn't have to be an either/or situation. You can see how far you get with the pain management techniques she explains, but if you end up wanting drugs you will do so knowing you've done your best.

I ended up having an epidural AND forceps but I couldn't be prouder of the way I handled my birth.

It is my firm belief that all labours have different levels of pain and all people's pain thresholds are different. So there is really very little point in comparing ourselves with each other and passing judgement on whether natural or drugs are the go.

But I also very much agree with Kelly that you are much more likely to have a natural labour if you have good support people and you do your research. There is absolutely no point in going into this saying "oh, I'll just see what happens and do a bit of deep breathing." That's probably not going to cut it.

[BellyBelly]

Yup so many people bag birth plans and say it all goes skew wiff anyway, but the thing is you can't just have a plan and it all just works. So you have a plan - what have you done to give yourself the best chance of it happening? Where are you giving birth? What support do you have? What reading have you done (not up the duff and what to expect like every other person LOL!) and what education? What is your and your partner's philosophy of birth and labour pain? So many things couples need to do if they are serious about their birth plan. I think this is why so many doctors and midwives laugh at birth plans because people walk in with them like they would an order at mcdonalds.... LOL