Yes, it hurts, but you know what? For me it was a 'good' hurt I thoroughly enjoyed my labour, and can't wait to go back and do it again. Hopefully no gas, no nothing next time

Every person is different, and every labour is different. For sure, go in with an open mind, but do your research, know how each pain relief method works, and what it's side effects are, so that you can make an informed decision. As Kelly said, most people who achieve a drug-free birth do not fluke it, they are well prepared. You might not get any medals from anyone else, but you'll want to give one to yourself you'll feel that bl00dy good afterwards