With DD1 we didn't DTD for most of her pregnancy because I was terrified of having another m/c. I had absolutely no interest in DTD with DD2. This time I've been, um, a bit the opposite DH thought life could never get so good through probably the first trimester and a half. Things then changed and I felt incredibly nauseous which was exacerbated by DTD, so DH ended up taking a LOT of cold showers. Since about 28 odd weeks nothing could interest me less so DH is still taking cold showers.
Its hard not to feel guilty. My DH isn't particularly vocal about DTD, comments etc but when he makes a rare one, which is always in jest, I feel very guilty. He understands though, and its not like we don't love them anymore. I think its one of those things that everyone is going to be different, and if I'm anything to go by every pregnancy is different too.
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DH thought life could never get so good through probably the first trimester and a half. Things then changed and I felt incredibly nauseous which was exacerbated by DTD, so DH ended up taking a LOT of cold showers. Since about 28 odd weeks nothing could interest me less so DH is still taking cold showers.
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