I was thinking the exact same thing today and was going to post for advice!

I'm very much the same in that I really can't be bothered, but more so scared. I'm only 6 weeks and have a fibroid and im so paranoid about any extra pressure down there causing a m/c, which I know is just stupid but I can't help it. I apologized to DP and explained how I was feeling about it, he said he understood and was a bit scared himself. It's our 1st so naturally concerned! Still feel guilty though

Rest assured you are definitely not alone and I'm sure things will improve, just might take some time perhaps schedule some mummy and daddy time to do something romantic, doesn't have to be revolved around DTD but I think for most of us women, without that intimacy it's really hard to get going.