I'm in the same boat and feel really guilty about it even though DH, while he gets frustrated, is good about it. I miss the intimacy too though, like you said BR, but can totally do without the hot and heavy stuff . A part of me i think is scared it will hurt me or the baby which I know isn't true. Early on in the pregnancy we were getting into it and I started to have a Braxton hicks contraction which I know from my googling is normal but it freaked me out so much I don't want it to happen again. Plus it's uncomfy, I'm tired, have other things on my mind and get very irritable with all the touching that goes on lol. I find my skin is hypersensitive since being pg.

Its like my body's purpose is now for something else. It no longer is for pleasure. It no longer does what I want it too, even if I did feel like it. And it has much greater priorities, like growing a baby.

I'm really hoping for a straightforward birth, quick and good recovery of my lady bits, a baby that sleeps well and a return of my libido so we can get back to sharing that part of our relationship.

But no, you aren't alone Hun!


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