It's tough when you just don't agree
I don't want to add to your debate about whether to circumcise or not because that is a choice only you and DH can make ...
I guess the only thing I can really think to do is to talk to him about why it is important to you not to circumcise and why it is important for him to circumcise ... if you haven't already done this. Also, don't debate each other reasons, just allow each other to talk and listen and then not talk about it for a couple of days and really think about what the other is saying. It's hard in these situations where it really is a bit of a win-lose and someone feels like they aren't getting what they want. Unfortunately, there is no middle road especially if the issue is really important to both of you. Sometimes these issues can be solved by just feeling that your point of view has been heard and one of you might realise it is not as important as you thought (sometimes it is still very important to both of you but I think it is important to understand where the other is coming from without judgement).
I'm sorry I don't have anything more profound to offer ... failing all that,for a girl
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