LOl - what a great thread. For the first tri dh and i were told to try not to dtd (as id had bleeding) then when we thought it was all systems go, i had another bleed at 14 weeks so no getting on for two more weeks, then i just didnt want it. We have dtd once since then and we are both fine without it for now, dh has just switched off the whole idea, and it suits me fine as i dont have to say no!

But there is something going on atm, i feel like i need it now after all this time and dh is away interstate