I really don't know if I can say anything to help you make your decision. I guess you have to take what the Dr's say as gospel, as we don't know any different... we aren't qualified!

I am sure that Kelly will have something to help you through this decision, she is the one to ask... I am not sure if she looks in here much though... maybe post in Labour&Birth too...

I hope it all works out... I really haven't helpped at all... Thinking of you though.