Aww hun, there is nothing at all that you are doing wrong. Sounds like you are more than just a little anxious though. Is it possible for you to organise to have a massage ? It might help to relax you a little if nothing else. Make a date to go out somewhere. Bub's always like to come to inconvenience you.

Sorry, I know, that's probably not what you want to hear either. But there really is nothing that you can do.