Prettybutterfly - I'm sorry you had an awful experience - it sounds very traumatic

I just wanted to point out that though that 8.8 pounds is under 4kg - cos Miss M wasn't over 4kg born and she was 8 pounds 11.5oz. I think she was around 3950/3980 grams (can't remember which, its been a year!). So I think someone told you a wrong conversion somewhere