honestly, i had no idea either...but something just happened to dh and i when our ds was born- our instinct took over.

dh was running around on adreniline for the first week- he couldn't sleep! and ever since then, it's just felt so natural. we love it...and anytime we couldn't work something out- i would just log on here, ask a question and get an instant answer.

you're going to be a wonderful mum OP