Well, I'm back and I survived...phew

After the OB kept me waiting for 2 hours we went into the consultation room and before he even said hello to me he said "Seen you have a high BMI you are no longer allowed to see the midwives...you can only see me". Without a second thought I replied that I am exactly the same weight I was when pg with DD (last year) and I didn't have to go through all of this last year...Infact last year I wasnt even weighed, let alone having to go through fortnightly humiliation like this. He replied "Procedures have changed" and I replied "Well my body hasn't changed...my uterus is still the same and I'm pretty sure my vagina is the same too..." DH who was sipping on his drink spat out some of his drink and laughed..but I was mad...so- your procedures have changed which must mean I have to confirm to your way of doing things hey? I don't think so.

I told him that whilst I understand he has concerns re my BMI, I am happy to continue seeing my midwife for the remainder of the pregnancy as I don't feel that seeing him would alter my BMI...lol...I thanked him for his time and got up and walked out.

I was soo mad that I was shaking and crying...DH was pleased- I was back to my normal self again (telling the ob where to go) LOL.

I called my midwife and told her and she was quite chuffed LOL..

So here I am back in empowerment mode..I'm not going to have some a$$hOle spoil my pregnancy so pfft to him