Hey guys,

I've had these pains in my vaginal lips, they're swollen and the pain is like a dull ache. It hurts all the time and when i stand for too long it gets real painful. They're so swollen that after i pee when i wipe myself it feels real strange.
I have spd (pelvic disorder) but i dont think that has anything to do with it. Is this normal and is it just my baby engaging?

Im 36 weeks. How will i know if my bub has engaged?


Any suggestions its getting too uncomfortable to do anything.