So write down that you are fearful of not going into labour.

Then write down what will happen. I think mine went something like I would go to 42 weeks and then I would have another csection. I don't ever want to be induced as a vbac - risk of rupture is too high for me personally. So I made peace with the fact that I might end up with another csection. However because I had awesome birth support it wouldn't be because of lack of trying for the vbac - itms?

Like this time round I'm having a homebirth and that's best case scenario - but if something does happen and I don't get it I know that it was necessary and supposed to happen - which makes it easier to deal with.

I went through 3 years of being disappointed and upset about dd1's failed vbac because I don't feel that I tried my hardest. I cried for every birthday. Its such a crap feeling, birth has such an effect on us.

Hopefully you went into labour overnight - but if you didn't - it will happen! Little buggers can't stay in there forever right?