So true but what is so bad about it? They are warning me about what exactly? Is it likely that I'll go into labour? I don't think so. I just got the impression I was receiving another ear bashing about OBs with no substance to the argument, if that makes sense.
Quite right! What DID they mean, what point were they trying to make. I've learnt that if someone is down or tries to "warn" me about something, I directly ask them WHY it is a problem.
If they are genuine they will give you a genuine answer, if not they will have nothing further to say. These are often the people that like to tell you how horrible giving birth is, how they had 8000 stitches and laboured for 4 days