That is SO NOT ON. Completely blaming the victim because it's too damn hard for the principal to deal with.

The message this sends to your son can be really damaging - he is basically being told it all his fault, he's weak for showing how it makes him feel...all NOT things you want a boy that age to be learning.

Aussienic I know you said you don't want to take it further yet - but that's been going on for 5 years and as both boys get older (and bigger and more full of hormones!) it's probably just going to get worse. I think you need to go to the Education Dept. and have this dealt with.

I hope Ethan is ok.