wow no that is not right. They shouldn't be blaming Ethan. It isn't HIS fault that little **** is bullying him. They should be marching L's stupid ass to the office and calling HIS parents and suspending him! Can you ask to see their bullying policy? Most schools have one and it sounds to me like they aren't following theirs. You can definately threaten to call the Edu Dept about it, maybe that would make them sit up and take it seriously. It is not ok that this is happening.

Grrr im so mad!