Thanks manta ray.. its so hard to progress on your first one!! specially for about 6 weeks there I was doing full time work, and it was all so hectic and just easy to keep doing what we had been doing. Does anyone have any recipes for meals that can be microwaved for him on the days that I work? cos me and craig don't usually have dinner till about 7.30.. and aricyn has his dinner around 6 and a bottle at 7 then bed at 8.30. any ideas would be bloody fantastic!!!