I struggle some days too so here is what our diet looks like!

Brekky and Snacks - Porridge, raisin toast, toast, (cheerios, nutri grain crunchy nut cornflakes - all sometimes) zucchini slice, cheese, a few bikkies, lots of fruit, muffins (cheese and bacon and I grate veggies into them) mini banana muffins, smoothies with loads of fruit, yoghurt etc. boiled eggs, dips and cheese with bikkies or carrots (only DD will eat them though) muesli bars (want to try making some) pike lets , sultanas.

As for bread - up to you hun, you could get a small white loaf for DH only and hide it and give the kids the good stuff?? We don't ever buy white and if we end up with some like after a bbq etc. the kids don't really care to eat it. The only bread DS doesn't like is a 7grain and seed loaf from Safeway that is really dense. We usually just buy a multi grain wholemeal from Bakers Delight. You could try something like Chia bread that is white with seeds and there are a few others that a more white with seed - something like the Tip Top multi is like that I think.

Planning meals ahead makes a difference to me too - not full on meal planning but in the morning I think about what we might have for dinner so that I am not in a rush, I can get stuff from the shops if I need it and we are less likely to rush and end up eating cr@p or getting takeaway if I am prepared. I also start dinner at around 3:30 and do whatever I need to do to start getting it ready. If it is something like chicken noodle soup I cook it all arvo on low and it makes it deeeelish. Regular dinners here are rice or pasta with meat and steamed veggies chicken noodle soup, swedish meatballs, spag with heaps of veggies,

I would just replace a few things at a time, just don't buy Tiny Teddies at all. We get them occasionally but once they are gone, that's it. Try and buy some stuff from the health section - rice wheels are a hit here for a treat. Otherwise rice cakes etc. Mine also like saladas and cruskits. I know they are a bit high in salt but if they eat a bunch of other healthy stuff through the day Im not so worried about one salada.

Hope that helps babe, it is hard but you can do it for all of you and having a few go to's up your sleeve that the kids love helps. I made swedish meatballs 3 times last week because I knew the kids love it!! oxoxox